This is what his family thinks of me?

im having the same trouble my boyfriends mum hates me ive heard her calling me names on the phone but i just ignore it because i dont wont her to seem like she is winning so i pretend that it doesnt affect me, (when it does) it will go away when they relaise that he makes his own choices in life and that he is growing up and they cant control him all the time, and his family has to get to grips with that you are his girlfriend and one day you may be part of his family and they need to get use to that idea, hope this helped.